two_design_kitties
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I still don't get it and am hurt... this guy who I saw for the last month - I thought we had the most amazing chemistry. For our first 2 dates he drove up to see me and spent 10 hrs on the 1st, then 8 hrs on the 2nd and we spent a whole wknd together. I thought we were mentally compatible, he was always looking/gazing at me, even opening the door/treating and we were affectionate. He always made the first move, the first hugs and kisses. We both were looking for a serious relationship.<br />
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Sadly we got kind of drunk the last wk, we got kind of intimate and now he says he doesn't feel the right chemistry. But he totally enjoyed himself, so I don't get what he really means? Is he trying to hurt me more by saying that? <br />
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Thank you, I would really appreciate any male's feedback..<br />
PS. I forgot to add - I defin. was open, affectionate and flirty with him. I totally thought we were mutually attracted to each other and def. felt sparks.. at this point, he only wants to be friends. But I told him I couldn't just be friends with him, it's too painful.<br />
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Sadly we got kind of drunk the last wk, we got kind of intimate and now he says he doesn't feel the right chemistry. But he totally enjoyed himself, so I don't get what he really means? Is he trying to hurt me more by saying that? <br />
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Thank you, I would really appreciate any male's feedback..<br />
PS. I forgot to add - I defin. was open, affectionate and flirty with him. I totally thought we were mutually attracted to each other and def. felt sparks.. at this point, he only wants to be friends. But I told him I couldn't just be friends with him, it's too painful.<br />